I only respond to messages that show the person read my profile. You are using messages with new potential partners to trash an ex, complain about your dating life, or ask about their online dating experiences. These types of messages can scare off a potential partner or leave them wondering how to respond, especially if there is too much information, oversharing, or numerous questions within one message. Loading comments… Trouble loading? The same goes for your profile. You want to target women who you actually think would make a great fit for you, and vice versa. If you want to save time and frustration, focus your efforts on the sites and apps that best fit your circumstances.
So in addition to the 19 rules of engagement, we are also required to withstand the rigors of sustained scrutiny in the form of a background check?
Why don't women respond to my online messages?
Late 30s? Great post, pictures gives it sense. For the select few who make it past that point, it takes 20 seconds to read their profile description to determine whether they actually are boring or not. It may just be she's too busy talking to somebody else, or maybe the message got pushed aside. Take a breather and focus on other ways that you enjoy spending your time.