Kinja is in read-only mode. Dive into freelance writing with. Instead, even when the men hiring prostitutes are permitted to feel "natural and moral," the women hired are expected to be ashamed. News flash: At any rate, women like ChinaBounder's partners are finally in a position to choose for themselves, a position that all too few women around the world enjoy even today. For all the rhapsodies about silken hair, "surrounding sensuousness," esoteric erotic arts and the ultrafemininity of Asian women, it is this economic imbalance that makes places like Bangkok so magnetic to Western men. Yes, it's possible that genuinely warm feelings and even love sometimes arose between men and women in these situations, just as it's possible that African-American slaves and their masters' families sometimes felt fondness and loyalty toward each other, or that soldiers from an occupying army might befriend local residents.
But of course, this is quite another matter from a white man seeking out, specifically, Asian women.
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A lot. Trending Articles. The real gauge of the sexual freedom of a society isn't the liberty accorded to its men, after all, but the liberty accorded to its women. No American, he astutely points out, would be so incensed if an Asian "bounder" wrote an online diary listing all the Iowan farm girls and Southern belles he seduced, "simply because," Bernstein writes, "there is no particular interest in the topic. I used to know a dude who seemed to think having an "Asian fetish" was a badge of honor.