Now, for those into that sort of thing, hey whatever floats your boat, but I wager in 10 - 15 years time he'll be the equivalent of the open shirt, gold chain on harry chest "swinger" who is still hitting on 20 somethings. City-Data Forum Message. Once you've found your perfect person, you can only hope that your relationship lasts forever. You claim to have a pretty high maturity level and I trust you, so do not give in to the excuses and the bullshit and feed the drama that will only get worse over time. Are you completely and totally attracted to him?
Know your standards and maintain a no kissing for 3 months rule to weed out short term thinkers.
Cold Feet on a Date – 12 Ways to Gain Confidence
Listen, that rush of chemistry has an overpowering effect on our brain function and for a while we really do live in La-La Land, bringing front and center the most idealistic aspects of our personalities. Originally Posted by Celestyn. Being confident is not a talent. And react accordingly. Getting ready for a date can be a harrowing experience, especially if you are not the type of person who has a lot of self-confidence. For a guy, being up for a relationship depends on a whole lot of factors. Very down to earth woman, very easy to talk to, well traveled, just all around a great personality.