Ease into it gently and later you can up the stakes and go bigger and faster. Make sure your partner doesn't use the same butt finger in your vagina afterward. Due to the tightness of that particular orifice, whenever you have anal sex there are going to be small, almost microscopic tears inside. We always hear horror stories about anal sex, too. First, the internal anal muscle is controlled by the autonomic nervous system.
Get some toys in there.
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Either way is percent fine, and if he keeps pressuring you when you have made it clear that it is not on the table, tell him to suck it. Cosmo Master Class: This is not the case. However, alpha men need a different kind of approach. Start small.